By: Sydney Brooks
FAYETTEVILLE, Ark. (UATV) – For many students, since COVID-19 began, their dating life has looked much different. While some have put their love life on pause, others found new ways and solutions.
The pandemic has affected everyone differently and, for many, online dating has been the best route.
Alexandria Williams, a fourth year student said she enjoys using dating apps to meet new people and build connections with others around her and across the world.
“Being in a new area I was like maybe I’ll make some new friends,” Williams said.
At the beginning of the pandemic, dating apps quickly saw an increase in users. Tinder reported seeing 3 billion swipes in one day and other companies noted large percentage increases in confirmed dates on the app.
These numbers have continued to increase today and Camden Baines, a regular user of Tinder and Bumble, shared that COVID dating for him has included virtual calls more often.
“A lot of my dates have been on Facetime and over the phone,” Baines said.
While some easily adjusted to the virtual change, others reported that the lack of face to face interactions affected them mentally.
Rachel Williams, a graduate student, said she remembers sharing with her mom that she was feeling extremely sad.
“I was like Mom, I’m so lonely I don’t have anyone out here…I’m not going to find my person.” Williams said.
With students being shut off and secluded, this can take a big hit on a student’s mental health.
In fact, studies show that students are most at risk when it comes to the mental effects of the pandemic on one’s health.
Students report having an increase in anxiety, depression and other various mental disorders.
Patricia Morency, mental health clinician and diversity coordinator said these results come as no surprise.
“We are dealing with a lot of grief, loss and uncertainty, and those are definitely prying triggers for depression and anxiety. We’ve seen a lot more people coming to The Pat Walker Health Center and seeking services,” Morency said.
Some students have chosen to take a break on dating because of covid and Morency points out that this can be difficult at times, but to not be discouraged.
“I would encourage them to engage in acts of self love and affection. Find where you get your fulfillment from other types of relationships in your life like family and friends making sure you’re having that human connection,” she said.